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Verified by Psychology Today. Maybe It's Just Me, But Some may even make lack of shared interests a deal-breakerrefusing to even consider someone who doesn't like doing the same thing they.

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I shared no major interests with any of my partners; our bonds were based on compatible personality traits and mutual attraction. Of course, those relationships all ended, so that may not speak well for my attitude toward shared interests! However, all of these relationships ended for reasons dating someone with different interests had nothing to do with whether or not my partner and I had shared interests.

Furthermore, I think that, in some cases, whatever shared interests we did have may have masked the underlying problems that ended the relationships, making them last longer than they otherwise would have gay club brisbane, in the process, hurting us both even.

This is assuming the problems were fatal to the relationship and could not have been worked out with more time—which, in my case, dating someone with different interests a safe assumption.

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Generally, shared interests serve the same function dating someone with different interests commitment does, with the same two contrasting intersets. For more on this, see my earlier posts fantastic trannies and. They both provide a glue that maintains the relationship through tough times and gives the people in the relationship a chance to work on it, but may also keep dating tips app relationship together long after it stopped serving its purpose of making the partners feel happy and fulfilled.

Narrowing in on soemone second point, shared interests pose an additional danger that commitment does not: Even though, as I said, Dating someone with different interests never shared a lot of interests with my partners, something still stirs when I watch a movie or hookup dating Jefferson City Missouri to a restaurant we both liked.

I would imagine that would happen much more often if someone shared a major life passion with their partner, like going to jam band shows, literary readings, or inherests games, things that you consider central to your life and identity and now are inextricably linked with a former partner.

For this reason, difverent relying on shared someoe may be a great way to meet someone and get to know them better, I would caution against making them a precondition of a relationship or a deal-breaker that prevents one. Ideally, you should find someone who appreciates your interests and indulges them when possible, or at least tolerates them in good humor. Shared interests may be a great way to meet and connect with someone new, but be careful about putting too much weight on.

If a dating someone with different interests prospers and endures, shared interests may enhance the experience, but should not be central to it—there are more important qualities, such as affection, attentionand respect, that most people want and need in zomeone partner more than common activities dating someone with different interests hobbies.

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Jan 25, Common interests, beliefs, likes and dislikes of food etc. If you know they have different interests then you this creates a interesting situation. Welcome to /r/OkCupid — a place for all things online dating, critiques, advice, and the weird little community we've built here. However, thanks to you, I also know that men don't want to date themselves. Wondering if I should be looking for someone MORE different than myself.

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Another Way to Look at Commitment. For more of my posts dating someone with different interests relationships and other topics, see this categorized list at my website. Feel free to visit my website http: My sweet, wonderful husband and I have witu married for 24 years. We share very few "hobbies" or common interests.

Now, over the years I've come to appreciate the things he's interested in, and dating someone with different interests versa, but we each still have our own hobbies. What we do share is values and morals. And after 24 years, we share a couple decades of life experiences.

That's more important, in my humble opinion. My partner and I are both have craft hobbies, she fuck dating Lexington-fayette, I photograph and we have shared political views but the thing that makes us work, IMO, is that we dating someone with different interests both at a similar level of emotional maturity and I think that this is the ingredient for a good relationship.

If one partner is reading Socrates and the other is playing X Box I think that relationship would be doomed.

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