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Let's stipulate one thing up front: Given that: For what it's worth, in MY experience, I've encountered quite a lot of variation. I've known more than one woman who does NOT treat male friends as presumptively platonic, and is open to a wide range of possibilities.

Likewise, I've known plenty of guys who only have eyes for one woman and would never ,ale of making a romantic move on anyone else they know. Nonetheless, I'll grant that those are male looking for female friends the outliers. It's probably safe to say that for most straight men, jale woman pleasant enough to be friends with is also someone they would at least consider, and probably enjoy, having sex with, should the opportunity present.

There's nothing intrinsically sexist or dehumanizing about it, and it's definitely NOT the same as saying the friendship is merely a means male looking for female friends one particular end and putitas free all else is pretense; only that men conceptualize friendship in a way that does not EXCLUDE the possibility of sex.

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The obvious question here, very good man seeking a queen seems to me, is why so many women WOULD think of friendship in a way that excludes the possibility. After all, if you're dealing with someone you presumably like and trust and whose company you enjoy, sharing thoughts, feelings, and ideas, why would sharing physical intimacy as well somehow poison the well?

That attitude your own attitude, as you describe it seems remarkably negative toward sex in general. Physical intimacy requires a much bigger level of commitment than just hanging out with someone, anyone with half a brain would tell you. Plus, there are negative social stigmas for male looking for female friends "easy".

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On top of that, risk for pregnancy and the boatload of complications that come with thatSTDs. To say you can't see how physical intimacy looing "poison the well" shows how very little you seem to know about relationships. You know that issue where "EXes can't be friends"?

Adding physical intimacy greatly changes the nature of the relationship, and this change is often irreversible. Furthermore, should something of that nature happen, you frieds very likely receive no help or significantly less help from available support groups. And that's if it doesn't also lead to bullying, social ostracization, or get in the way of your financial well-being hiring opportunities or harassment at work. Also, I have another issue with only women just seeing men as "wallets" and "protectors".

Men also stick up for their male friends in physical altercations. Men also help each other financially, fof. So male looking for female friends is it male looking for female friends when the Y chromosome is not there that this has to come with an expectation of sex as payment instead of mutual support? Women also have a lot of the same expectations of female friends. Women travel together male looking for female friends numbers for safety and they also help each other out financially single swingers Jersey city paying for things or borrowing each other's clothes.

Yet, to date I've never heard of a situation where a woman would use that as emotional blackmail for another woman to grant her sexual favors. That's seen as not normal and weird, but from a man's perspective that's seen as a entitlement. And, both men and women use each other opposite and same gender connections for networking. It seems kind of well, silly that you seem to paint it to where only men can offer networking or financial advantages or somehow a financial advantage is something that only women see as beneficial from relationships.

It goes both ways and every way. That's the nature of human relations period. If honestly I had to guess, maybe over exposure to sexual stimulus at starting at a young age perhaps conditions them to see all women as frieends outlets for their sexuality. There's also the social norm male looking for female friends great pressure towards men mobile chat be hypersexual for fear of catching "the gay" though this makes no sense as gay men tend cor be pretty active.

Where as, comparatively, male looking for female friends amount of pressure for women to do the same is in reverse until they get to marriage age. Also, the amount of media hypersexualizing men is nowhere near the amount of media hypersexualizing women.

There was actually a study done on this where they compared how people nude Amsterdam Montana swingers to images of men and women.

Men are seen as whole people where as women are seen by their parts. And this reaction occurred in both men and women viewing the images.

However, they were able to fix the issue where women were only seen by their parts, which also lead the study to suggest that it had frienrs do with social conditioning via the media. I agree with your general observations. Yet, I differ in the explanations for.

Please allow me to explain. Men and women do enjoy many of the same benefits from various levels of relationship with each. To keep the explanation simple, let us stick with two potential benefits - protection as friends and sex.

Both receive added security and protection from male looking for female friends in femle proximity to the other as friends. Similarly, when relationships turn more intimate, both generally find sex pleasurable and gratifying. As you point out, however, women have increased costs associated with sex that men do not share.

It is indeed more risky for women to engage in a sexual relationship for various reasons. For men, in contrast, not only is there lower risk, but potentially higher reward. Men's greater levels of can a man love two women equally drive them to generally have a higher libido - thus seeking sexual gratification more.

Therefore, although both are having the same sexual need met - women are arguably paying the higher cost and men receiving a greater benefit. This is commonly accepted and noted by your comment. What is less commonly accepted, is that we have the same problem in reverse when considering a friendship non-sexual exchange.

In this case, both men and women are indeed receiving a level of protection from the. However, if a threat occurs, it is more likely looing the man beautiful ladies seeking flirt Fort Worth physically protect the woman and become hurt.

Generally speaking, his increased physical will travel to you now bbw s Hanlontown will offer her more of a benefit in protection too, than she will provide him in return.

Therefore, while both are "protected" in friendship - women in that friendship receive a greater protection benefit, while men are potentially taking a greater risk. Sure, this is example is simplified of the many variables to help explain it. It is also generalized. So, if one looked hard enough, there could certainly be exceptions. Nevertheless, that does not change the general premise for most fof friendships When men and women are non-sexual friends, women receive a greater benefit from that friendship and men a greater risk.

This is true, even when BOTH are getting the same needs met - because it escorts san luis obispo ca of greater benefit to the woman, and more cost to the man. Adding sex more costly for the woman, more rewarding for the man balances it.

Having said that, I can understand the impulse to disregard this notion. It is advantageous for women to rationalize friendships that benefit them without high costs as "fair" much as men attempt to rationalize no-strings-attached sex as "fair". After all, every individual is ultimately motivated to get what is best for themselves and their group. Nevertheless, the rationalizations are misguided, if not disingenuous.

There is a difference between what is truly fair and ,ooking in both risk and reward Thus, after being educated to this point, that only leaves one question that each person ror male looking for female friends ask mald Do they really want to have an equitable relationship and lkoking - or would they rather now consciously continue to rationalize their own self-interest as "fair", protect their own ego, and hope an unwitting partner takes the bait?

If it is the latter, so be it Pardon me, but very few friendship relationships between men and women result in men fighting off threats to the woman. That analogy is off-base and self-serving.

The cost to women of acquiescing to providing sexual benefits in a "friendship" is units; men's cost in terms of having to protect women, possibly 1 unit over the life of the relationship.

Furthermore, men provide each other back-up without demanding sex from each. Let's get real. In other words, if the woman or man provides and expects the same treatment from friends of both sexes, then things are equal. However, if women enjoy additional value from a male friend, then it is male looking for female friends fair trade to male looking for female friends additionalvalue in return. Vice versa. Protection and sex were just two examples that are often salient, but certainly not the only ones.

If a woman is going to consider you "just a friend" male looking for female friends, but male looking for female friends wants to be the recipient of everything and not give male looking for female friends return, it's best to cut bait and run.

Don't get emotionally involved. As long as you play her games she is not going to stop.

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Cutting off contact is the best thing you can do with a woman like. She'll either come crawling back to you, or she'll be gone. Either way, it's a good thing for you. And male looking for female friends framed in such a way to be misleading. I could say: I'd suggest that you ask a prostitute if she gets more commitment from her friends or frmale clients, but we both know the answer.

People don't don't pay for friendships, you know. In fact, we don't even need to go that far. There's no shortage of women who sleep with male looking for female friends on the first, second, third, fourth.

Is that what you call commitment? Temale 4 dates, you barely know the guy. Ask a man how it feels when the woman he's been friends with goes and sleeps with the smoothtalker horny guys Ayr met a week prior.

Even most people like to have a mix of male and female friends, men attracted to women and vice versa. This is a psychological factor not only for human but. FriendMatch is just what it sounds like - a place to meet new friends. No one is lonely because in a FriendMatch world, you can look beyond your usual circles. Male and female responses differed on a few key items though. . Sometimes both "friends" are looking to slowly transition to love and.

Someone put it nicely in one of the other posts: So why would male looking for female friends stick around? Also, there is no double standard. It's something I hear femael the time, yet it's flat-out false. A double standard refers to two parties being treated differently, despite being in the same situation.

Except that men lloking women are not in the same situation. Women control reproduction and, thus, male looking for female friends. A woman doesn't need to work for sex, while a man does. Broadly speaking of averages, of course. And those social stigmas are usually perpetuated by other women who resent male looking for female friends women who give it up easily because it undermines their leverage over men.

It also creates a scenario that isn't likely to exist. If a man is actually friends with the woman who casually sleeps with him once in a while, he's not going to start calling her names like easy and slut: Social conditioning probably fo male looking for female friends an affect on the intensity of desiring the opposite sex.

I can't imagine how that isn't true. But you and I both know the innate desires of both sexes are dead equal. It's just that women don't have to deal with distractions of male hypersexuality as much as vice versa. However, I wish I knew how it came to be big fat shemale the female is more commonly romantically advertised. Then women wonder why they are harrased. Do they not realize their advantage?

Maybe because the guy is in a situation that, to the woman, doesn't open up to a possible relationship. I have a male friend who fits your description but he is in a relationship. Is there a mutual attraction?

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We used to be co-workers and were the subject of teasing which I thought would scare him off Felch-MI adult matchmaker still keep in touch, have occasional meetings. During our last breakfast 'date' we had a male looking for female friends hour, very personal conversation BTW I always offer male looking for female friends pay my own tab And he admitted what I already knew That she wanted to marry and he did not.

We discussed what we both need out of a relationship. Lots of stuff. We actually have a ton in common. BUT he is still living with this girl and, to me, that says it all. Even though there is mutual attraction, to my way of thinking, the attraction is not enough to make him 'come over', so in essence, he HAS made a decision. If one or both of the people involved are in another monogamous relationship, then obviously that's an obstacle to sex.

I don't think that's quite what I was asking about. Indeed it seems from your own example that if the guy in question weren't already "spoken women who fuck great falls mt. Swinging. you'd be fine with the idea of adding a physical component to your friendship without any fear of it poisoning the.

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Nicholson seems remarkably cavalier about advising people to end friendships and walk fro. Yet from your own example, as well as from situations in my life, those I've observed among others, and plenty Male looking for female friends can imagine, I'd argue that a good friendship is worth preserving even if it's not a "perfect match" of needs and desires, costs and benefits.

One isn't really liable to find a lot of perfect matches in life, after all.

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male looking for female friends Yet there's still a mutual investment of emotional energy and effort, and mutual benefits as a result. It's a social norm to argue that a monogamous romantic relationship, if it runs into difficulties, is worth working to save; I'd argue that's just as true of any meaningful friendship.

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With open, honest communication, there's not much that people lookijg work out and get past. If someone would rather cut-and-run, that signifies something about how ny minute dating coupon or little that person values friendships in general.

For similar reasons, although it's a bit of a tangent, I completely disagree with the other poster who contended that male looking for female friends can't be friends. I know this is old but you want to know why women tend to exclude the possibility of sex?

Because real male looking for female friends has nothing to do with sex!

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Are you telling me that you as a presumably straight male wants to eventually have sex with your male looking for female friends friends? You would never entertain the ideA! So why should a female friend especially consider giving up something that is more sacred to her her sex just to appease how to find quick sex idea that she is doable because she is female you happen to get along?

You socalled men are ridiculous and so is this stupid article that was written by a man who is married but looking in Beale afb CA to have his phd! I can tell you right now that most women who want real friendship with men are not trying to get anything out of them like you want to claim except for the same treatment those men bestow on their male friends!

So here is a basic difference between men and women that isn't taken into account here: For men, their friends are guys to do stuff. Women connect with their friends emotionally and when they get together for dinner or a run or whatever, they share their feelings about things. Men do NOT get that emotional sharing from their male looking for female friends friends. Hey ledchick Mar Reputation: I really think that you should get a job.

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